The University of Illinois has released a study that basically boils down to this: lesbian mothers who experience intimate partner violence are reluctant to seek help for fear of losing custody of their children.
The researchers recruited 24 mothers who had been abused by a same-sex partner and interviewed them about their experiences. On average, the women had been in their relationship for six years.
“A lesbian mom’s abuse situation is unique in that she fears losing her kids to the biological father or the state instead of the abuser,” said Jennifer Hardesty, a U of I associate professor of family studies.
“Many of the mothers in the study believed that people were prejudiced against them, and they assumed that people with power would use that prejudice to hurt them. That perception inhibited their willingness to openly seek help,” said Ramona Faith Oswald, a U of I associate professor of family studies and co-author of the study.
The study, the first to examine help-seeking for intimate partner violence among lesbian or bisexual mothers, appears in the January 2011 issue of Violence Against Women.
You can check out the study here.