Standing Ovations for Kendell, Confidence in NCLR’s Future

Standing Ovations for Kendell, Confidence in NCLR’s Future

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National Center for Lesbian Rights outgoing Executive Director Kate Kendell, left, with wife, Sandy Holmes, right, chief compliance officer/operations at Robasciotti and Philipson, at the organization’s annual gala dinner Saturday, May 19, 2018. Photo: Jo-Lynn Otto
National Center for Lesbian Rights outgoing Executive Director Kate Kendell, left, with wife, Sandy Holmes, right, chief compliance officer/operations at Robasciotti and Philipson, at the organization’s annual gala dinner Saturday, May 19, 2018. Photo: Jo-Lynn Otto

It was a night to party. It was a night to say goodbye. It was a night to raise a lot of money for LGBT rights.

It all happened in one amazing Saturday night at the National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR) sold out 41st annual dinner gala and party at the Palace of Fine Arts in San Francisco on May 19.

$1 million was raised for NCLR in honor of outgoing Executive Director Kate Kendell and the future of the LGBT legal advocacy organization.

Approximately 1,000 people attended the four-hour cocktail reception and dinner. Later in the evening another 1,300 people came for the after-party, the organization announced in a news release May 21.

NCLR’s leader Kendell announced she was stepping down after 22-years at the helm of the organization in March.

“We are living in the generation that Kate and NCLR helped create,” Ruth McFarlane, Esq., director of development and community engagement, quoted a fellow NCLR co-worker, opening the gala dinner awards and speeches.

Kendell’s tenure spans nearly a quarter century at the organization. She landed in San Francisco from Salt Lake City’s American Civil Liberties Union office as its new legal director 24 years ago.

Two years later she was the executive director taking on cases ripped from the headlines, calls for help that came to the office’s hotline, and leading the charge for same-sex marriage during her tenure.

She also built and led a winning team launching campaigns and programs to protect LGBT families, immigrants, athletes, transgender individuals, and more.

Outgoing National Center for Lesbian Rights Executive Director Kate Kendell, right, enjoying a moment with the Human Rights Campaign’s Director of Public Education and Research Ashland Johnson, left, at the 41st annual NCLR Gala at the Palace of Fine Arts in San Francisco, May 19, 2018. Photo: NCLR
Outgoing National Center for Lesbian Rights Executive Director Kate Kendell, right, enjoying a moment with the Human Rights Campaign’s Director of Public Education and Research Ashland Johnson, left, at the 41st annual NCLR Gala at the Palace of Fine Arts in San Francisco, May 19, 2018. Photo: NCLR

Saying goodbye

In her reassuring way, Kendell comforted the crowd about her departure. In a rousing speech she reminded the organization’s key donors how the community embraced her when she was new to San Francisco.

She recalled how the founding leaders of the organization, the honorable Donna Hitchens and Roberta Achtenberg, supported her when she took the helm of the then-fledgling organization.

“It was really important for the good of the organization to do anything that I could to help Kate be successful. She had all of the right characteristics,” said Hitchens. “there were times when she needed support or advice and both Roberta and I tried to be there for whenever that happened.”

Kendell told the crowd that she hoped and expected the community to do the same for whomever will be selected to fill her shoes as the national search for her replacement is currently underway.

Like her predecessors, she added that she will be at the gala next year to support NCLR’s new executive director.

“Under every leader at NCLR our reach has exceeded our grasp. Under every leader we punch above our weight. Under every leader we defy expectations,” Kendell told the crowd reflecting on her first week as legal director to winning marriage equality nationwide as executive director.

“In this moment, of real threat and palpable peril, it’s never been more important for you to know that you can count on the history, the experience, and the hard-won tireless commitment of this organization to navigate this moment and future moments,” she said crediting the organization’s donors, board members, and staff. “It’s not about me. It is about this organization, our DNA, and who we are and what we know. I’m not taking any of that with me. It is staying with this organization.”

Kendell expressed hope and excitement for the future talking about NCLR’s Next Gen Movement, a campaign to bring new leaders into the LGBT movement. She challenged the new leaders and everyone to “aim higher” than her example of leadership referencing a onesie created by NCLR staff reading, “When I grow up I want to be Kate Kendell.”

Legal Director Shannon Minter presents NCLR's Doe v. Trump transgender military ban plaintiffs with NCLR's Courage Award. (L to R: Naval Academy Midshipman Regan Kibby, NCLR Legal Director Shannon Minter, University of New Haven freshman Dylan Kohere.)
Legal Director Shannon Minter presents NCLR’s Doe v. Trump transgender military ban plaintiffs with NCLR’s Courage Award. (L to R: Naval Academy Midshipman Regan Kibby, NCLR Legal Director Shannon Minter, University of New Haven freshman Dylan Kohere.)

Pointing to the new generation of community leaders Black Lives Matter, the Parkland kids, and immigrant workers advocates, she said future’s leaders don’t look like her or have the years of experience she has under her belt, but they are “standing up moving the levers of power and making real change.”

“They are standing up demanding justice and they are not accepting no for an answer. They are saying we will be in charge. We are not going to wait for you to come around to the right position, we are going to take charge,” Kendell said to roaring applause. “That is how we move forward. I can’t wait to see what these leaders do next. I can’t wait to see what NCLR does next.”

Notably like the young recipients of NCLR’s Courage Award, which went to transgender Doe v. Trump plaintiffs Naval Academy Midshipman Regan Kibby and University of New Haven freshman Dylan Kohere. The young transgender men took on President Donald Trump’s transgender military ban with NCLR Legal Director Minter – one of two transgender attorneys at the center of the fight to stop the Trump-Pence transgender military ban.

Dinner attendees also heard from Born Perfect Strategist and conversion therapy survivor Mathew Shurka who shared his personal story and spoke about the organizations work combatting conversion therapy. He also noted two forthcoming films NCLR consulted on addressing conversion therapy, “The Miseducation of Cameron Post” staring Chloë Grace Moretz and won best dramatic feature at the 2018 Sundance Film Festival and “Boy Erased,” starring Nicole Kidman and Russell Crowe, as a part of the work the organization is doing.

“LGBT people are in every community. Every issue is an LGBT issue. We cannot be bystanders. We are the ones that can make a difference,” Kendell told attendees.

National Center for Lesbian Rights outgoing Executive Director Kate Kendell gives an emotional speech reflecting on her 22 years leading the organization at its annual gala dinner Saturday, May 19, 2018. Photo: Jo-Lynn Otto
National Center for Lesbian Rights outgoing Executive Director Kate Kendell gives an emotional speech reflecting on her 22 years leading the organization at its annual gala dinner Saturday, May 19, 2018. Photo: Jo-Lynn Otto

Hard to let go

For party-goers – LGBT and allies – she simply got down to Jon Bon Jovi’s “Living on a Prayer” and attempted to reassure them that NCLR will continue its great work without her.

Not everyone was convinced.

Kimberley Skidmore, a lesbian who was attending the event for the fifth time, expressed surprise and concern about Kendell’s departure.

“I don’t know who is coming next,” said Skidmore, stating that Kendell’s work was “absolutely excellent.”

“I wondered, ‘Why is she leaving?’” she asked speculating burnout or personal issues. “Nobody ever said.”

Other party attendees were more optimistic about NCLR’s future.

“She’s done a lot for the community and I owe respect to her because I was able to get married because of all of the hard work that she’s done,” said Lauren Inthanousay, who attended the party with her wife Jenny Inthanousay.

“The next person that steps up we need to show her adequate respect,” she continued. “I’m looking forward to it. I’m excited.”

Andrea Shorter, chairwoman of It’s Our Time for mayoral candidate London Breed and a commissioner of the San Francisco Commission on the Status of Women, told the Bay Area Reporter that Kendell’s legacy goes beyond the court room and the issues, it’s the community she built.

“Kate is someone who has really helped build community,” said Shorter. “It’s not just cases she’s won. It’s not just taking on tough issues. I think that the mark of her leadership and the hallmark of it will be the building of community.”

Sharon Smith, the plaintiff in the 2001 dog mauling case, agreed echoing one of Kendell’s messages to the audience that everyone in the community had a part in the changes that occurred over the past quarter century.

“She’s been a huge inspiration to all of us,” said Smith, but, “everybody out in the room today is also a big part of the movement.”

California State Senator Scott Weiner echoed the praises for Kendell as he presented her with a resolution.

“I worship at the altar of Kate Kendell,” he told the audience. “We have a lot of leaders in the LGBT community, but there is a tiny handful over time who ascend to a deity like status and Kate is one of those people.”

“Kate you are such an inspiration. You have inspired a generation of leaders that our community really need,” he continued from the podium. “We know you are going to continue to do great things.”

Confidence

Community leaders echoed their gratitude for Kendell’s commitment and vision for nearly 25 years praising her, at the same time, they were confident in the organization’s future.

“She’s done such an amazing job bring the organization to the forefront of fighting for LGBT rights,” said Leslie Katz, a lesbian activist and a shareholding attorney at Greenberg Traurig, LLP. “We all owe her a great deal of thanks.”

“We have to keep the fight up,” Katz said, hoping that the organization continues to “stay on the forefront leading the fight for human rights and civil rights.”

“This is a critical time for all of us and the fights that NCLR is leading and winning are crucial to our advancing equality for everyone,” she said. “She’s leaving it in great shape for the next generation to take leadership.”

NCLR’s Legal Director Shannon Minter agreed speaking with the B.A.R. from Washington, D.C. May 21.

“She’s given us such a strong foundation and such a strong vision that I think we feel very confident moving forward. We are all very committed to honoring her legacy and her vision,” he said stating the organization’s staff will be working “harder than ever” to fulfill Kendell’s mission and vision.

He also expressed that while the next person to take the helm of NCLR will be stepping into “some big shoes” they will also “get the benefit of an enormous reservoir of good will that she has built up and we have a very strong team at NCLR.”

“In that way it will be a great job to step into,” he added.

Hitchens agreed with Minter.

“I really have no doubt that NCLR will continue to be [a] successful [and] respected leader in the movement across the country,” she said. “I am not the least bit worried.”

Julie Dorf, senior advisor of the Council for Global Equality, expressed pride for Kendell’s leadership as well as excitement for NCLR’s future.

“It’s a new era,” said Dorf. “I really hope that we can find the next gen who is thinking about sexual rights and gender in a new way and who will take NCLR out of this era into the next that most of us in this room can’t really imagine.”

Originally published by the Bay Area Reporter.

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