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The Happiness Muscle: Untangling the Mess

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We all do the best we can and everything in life is a learning experience. We are all perfectly imperfect but we all have our basic humanity in common. ...
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Dorothy & Kelli: In the Midst

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I knew that when Kelli moved her furniture into the house it would take the place of most of mine...I thought we’d have a larger home when that time came though, and that my furniture would find a place in a family/game room. This was not to be. ...
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The Happiness Muscle: The Self-Care Cure

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You will not regret enjoying your cake or taking care of yourself when you are 80 years old sitting on a porch drinking herbal tea. You won't. ...
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The Happiness Muscle: Flexing Off the Flab

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Life is full of spilled coffee, moldy bread and road rage. Bubbly and positive people can be seriously irritating sometimes when you are in a bad mood. This is where the work starts. ...
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Dorothy & Kelli: In the Midst

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In the midst of circumstances and stressors, our attitudes and perspectives are affected, which in turn impacts our connection, particularly when one of us is feeling down or frustrated about the way life is going. ...
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The Happiness Muscle: Perspective

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I believe happiness is a conscious choice. People often get upset when I say this, angrily replying, "Why would I choose to be unhappy?" My response is "because it has become a habit". ...
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Dorothy & Kelli: In the Midst

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The dance of intimacy requires continual awareness. There are no shortcuts. Kelli and Dorothy know that deep intimacy requires the ability to be vulnerable, kind, trusting and trustworthy. ...
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Dorothy & Kelli: In the Midst

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To borrow an apt quote from another: “The past, the present, and the future walked into a bar. It was tense.”~ Unknown author. ...
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Dorothy & Kelli: In the Midst

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We spent a long holiday weekend, primarily inside, due to the May Seattle gloom. We had many conversations about being in "different places." ...
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Dorothy & Kelli: In the Midst

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When Kelli and I first met, my daughter was two and my son was six months. I was still married (to a man), and on the cusp of exploring my attraction to women. ...
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